does having friends makes life livable?

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Do you ever feel like friends are the most important people in your life? As in if you don't have them, you're really nothing or a nobody?

There are actually many povs to this question, from a perspective having friends does makes life more livable, from another they don't. Let's start from the no's; having friends does not make life livable. The world is a huge place with trillions of people. Meaning, everyone has different likings and enjoyments. For those people who enjoys being alone, will think having friends makes life just as livable as it is. They might think having friends doesn't really matter, that they're gonna be just fine without them. 

On the other hand, some think that life is gonna be more fun and exciting with friends. Imagine a life with them in it. You could tell them problems you've been going through, do things you've always wanted to do with them, and so on. With friends in your life, it'll feel as if you're not alone. It'll feel like you have a shoulder to lean on. Or at least that's how I feel.

Having my friends as my friends is one of the best thing that could happen in my life. We've gone through problems together. When I have my hardships, I can always lean on them. They're a blessing to me. But despite that, being alone isn't as bad or as sad as it sounds. Usually, being alone means you have more time for yourself, that's whether to take care of yourself or to know yourself better, etc. 

Both povs have their own fun part. 

But going back to the question,
Even if you don't have friends, you're still something. Every single person in this Earth is a someone. Not a no one/nobody. Although, you might think that without friends you're a no one, because people don't like you, that's not the case. Many many people succeed in life without anyone by their sides. And it also doesn't mean without them life is gonna be boring. Life is gonna have its ups and downs with or without friends in it, you just need to get ready for it. 




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